Dear Clerance, I’m currently going through a breakup too where my ex bf was the dumper.  It’s been a little over 2 months since my breakup and in the beginning I tried to keep in contact. I wanted to have a friendship and he said the same thing too but for some reason I was the one always initiating conversation. I still had feelings for him and he was giving me mixed signals about his feelings but After a month I decided to go No Contact because I didn’t want to keep hurting myself and giving myself false hope. I feel like you should continue with your no contact too. Your ex sounds a little confused about his feelings maybe. I think you need to continue to maintain space between him and continue to focus on yourself. No worries, you will find a new partner who isn’t moody and knows exactly what he wants.

Best of Luck!