Hi Anita , the problem stemmed that he seemed very vacant with me and was cancelling a few of our plans so I gave him a time to call me and he didn’t , I may have overreacted but I blocked him and he reacted very badly to it , crying Leaving a lot of voicemails . I agree his mental health is in a very bad way and his also lost his job now on top of this. I have granted his wish of leaving him alone to sort it all out and I haven’t heard from him now for 4 days however I am say here wondering if I am still in a relationship. I’m 33 years old and really hate not knowing I’m very anxious but I’m also conscious he so wanted this time on his own as his such a mess that I can’t Reach out and ask ‘what are we’ x