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  • #164800
    Amy
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    Eliana I didn’t mean you or anyone on this post, I meant my mother, father, friends and councillor. My mother and father have a broken relationship as they have hurt each other so much, my friends have been cheated on so hate men and my coucillor continues to tell me about his failed marriage and I could end up like that. He told me about how she cheated on him and my boyfriend could end up doing the same if unhappy. I’m better off on my own. The comments I wrote were not about you or anyone on this post only about people I know. That is why I thanked everybody on here numerous times for their goodness and understanding.

    #164650
    Amy
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    Just to add, we were on the break for 2 months and when we recently met for 2 dates everything was great, we got along, laughed so much, loved each other. But then people were saying I’m happier without him and he will never change. I’m angry Now because I let him go over listening to other people saying negative things because there not happy. But in the end what ever will be will be. If we were meant to be nothing will stop us reuniting at the right time or maybe we’ll move on seperately.

    #164634
    Amy
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    Thank you for all your advice you are such kind people. And yes inky that’s is exactly how our relationship is. Started smoking at 15/16, were in mid 20s, everybody’s moving on and were wondering if we can afford to go on a 3 day holiday. I’m mad looking for work as I concentrated my college and experience time with animals and there was no work. But it seems he doesn’t want to do anything. When he tries he immediately has some tantrum about it. I know writing this he sounds awful, and not a man (which he isn’t), but we do love each other. We were always there for each other and had this amazing connection even if we were very different. But you are all right I need to concentrate on myself. I recently started going running and Starting yoga & astrology course. My councilor said the best thing is to leave him and I’m growing and happier without him but I feel like I’m missing a chunck and everything is dark when he’s not here to light up the room when he walks in. But a break is good, maybe not a break up. Thank you everyone.

    #162652
    Amy
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    Thank you so much for your advice it was brilliant, as usual i stayed home crying as he went out on the town. I know the most important thing now is to not contact him and to focus on me and different ways I can better my life with my time. Its such a shame this has happened and I feel crazy at times but maybe a good seperation is what I need and if I feel he’s matured and wants a life with me again, so be it, I’ll not be in a rush for another relationship. But if he doesn’t then i hope he finds someone new and is happy. I am devastated over this and i hope i can bounce back without him as he was always my rock. But that was the problem we were too close now were seperate were both lost and frustrated with everything.

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