Dear anita,

I fully understand it was wrong first to lie to him, second to let that go on just because I needed a friend and third I should definitely never have become friends with him in the first place. I just truly never thought it would have any impact whatsoever in our relationship because it didn’t have any impact on me or my feelings.

Thanks,

Ana

Hello anita,

Yes, it was. And I stopped being in contact with him the moment I told my boyfriend and he pointed out he was not behaving as a friend. I even confronted him about that and he said he was just joking around and thought I knew that.

I also know his concerns are valid but I don’t think it would be right for us to break up because of this when I never saw this as a threat to our relationship.

Thanks,

Ana