What can I say. I know this is a five year old topic, but aside from its age it’s still rather relevant today. I was married for 3 years but together with her for 10. It was a rocky relationship as we got deeper in to our time together. I got too comfortable too quick. Then on New Year’s Day of 2018 her New Years wish was to move out on January 1st. She already had someone in mind in terms of whom she wanted to date even before leaving me. She was able to work out the logistics with her parents to move into one of the 4 homes that they owned. I was left to my own vices and myself as a dog. It was the worst feeling ever. My alcohol consumption sky rocketed from there and at that point I decided to move back from Arizona to New York. The adjustment has been less than desired to say the least. I’m currently living with my mom and resolving my alcoholism issues with naltrexone. During this time it’s been an unimaginable challenge to try to NOT think about her even though she so quickly “moved on”. When we got married she never took my last name, which I don’t mind but then one day a couple of weeks ago she had the audacity to contact me directly and said in a paraphrasing manner that be boyfriend calls her Theresa Rebecca. As if!! Are you frackin serious?!! What kind of a sick joke is that not only to rub that in my face but to even joke about the fact about her changing her name even if it was a joke I’m trying to heal and that comment was completely out of line and I should have said something, but since then I didn’t. Anyways, the reason why I’m posting is because I can’t go to public establishments or even do something without my mind wandering off and thinking about all of the great times we had together and how my heart is still lingering for her even after all of this. I don’t know what to do. Any advice would greatly be appreciated. Thank you so much.