I completely understand where you are coming from with fairness being a human construct. I know this is true – but I find it hard to accept. It’s my inner child screaming ‘but why isn’t life fair?!
Your assumptions are partially correct about my children. My first was put down to a one-off after tests came back clear. After my second stillborn, doctors did further in depth tests and concluded that my cervix was probably incompetent and so I have surgery in my third pregnancy. This did not work as expected and I went into labour with my third child prematurely. He then died. I have since been told that I would need more invasive surgery to have a chance at a successful pregnancy.
Thank you very much for your kind reply, and for the book recommendation. I will check it out.
I have been in therapy on and off over the past few years but I found it didn’t help much. I know that this is probably down to not finding the right therapist and sometimes I am guilty of feeling too low to keep searching.
Thanks again, I do appreciate you writing back
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