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AprilParticipantI don’t like this guy. At all. I’m sorry but when i imagine myself with a guy you described. I would have left him. a long time ago.
I believe you deserve better.AprilParticipantHey jaspermarie,
You are a person with a lot of potential and I feel that you should go for it! Imagine yourself sitting in an old rocking chair, all miserable and full of regret. Thinking about all the what ifs… Don’t be that guy. I think you should go for it no matter at what age the programme ends.
Good luck!AprilParticipantYou know ever since i was a child my family used to bug me saying i have a nose that stretches from one side of my face to the other. they said i have ugly hands. they said i was dumb. they said i have such frizzy hair a bee would get stuck and beg you to let it out. Sounds funny right? Being the youngest one in my family everyone enjoyed making fun of me. i am 20 years old now. Really insecure. on my first day in a university i was so scared because i thought i have a big nose, ugly hands, ugly feet and a brain that doesn’t function properly. So scared to compete amongst the people who were far more intelligent than me. far more beautiful and pretty. I am looking for an internship and i don’t think i can get one. Because my insecurities are overpowering me. i guess they already have. The funny thing is when i say i don’t think i can get a job/internship anywhere, they ask me why i am like that? why am i such a pessimist. these people around me. they made who i am now. and right now typing this i am crying. because i hate every single person who made me believe i was all that.
AprilParticipantThank you so much Jess. Deep down I knew all the reality which you just acquainted me with now but facing the truth upfront and something you have enabled me to do. In pursuance of this issue I want to ask you for another favor. I want to find out if he is absolutely sure of me, can fight for me and stand with me throughout the tribulations that might come up . He says all he can do is promise me his love and devotion and utmost a reasonable debate with his dad in this matter but I do not foresee a lot more than this. What exactly my course of action should be now? Break up with him? Just talk and stay together as friends?
P.S I am sorry I might sound really pathetic and hapless now but I am sure you might have heard what happens to people in love- they lose all sense.AprilParticipantI’m really sorry what you are going through. Maybe you’ll better off without him.
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