Anita,

Not so much that type of work done just yet….We have been working on things like letting go of things that I cant control, practicing healthy responses to anxiety stimulating instances, etc…

Anita,

No- they were both emotionally unavailable in their own ways. I grew up with parents who had the response of, “get over it” type of attitude. My mom wasn’t very nurturing and has never had the time to talk with me about things in depth.

Hi Anita,

Thanks for your response. To answer your question, what I’m afraid of is who it is on the other end of the text. I have a fear of being cheated on…It’s a fear I’ve always had. There hasn’t necessarily been anything HE has done to lead me to believe this. I believe most of it is just paranoid thoughts on my end, based out of fear of worst case scenario. Now when I simply have asked him who it is, he will tell me. So that’s a good sign. But I still find myself even questioning his answers and thinking about worst case scenario.