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  • June 4, 2017 at 10:58 am #151856
    Bradley
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    And yes there was no sex after the kiss.  The last time we had sex was end of March.  The kiss was the beginning of May which was me taking the lead

    June 4, 2017 at 10:52 am #151854
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    I realize now there is no point of having a relationship. Is there anyway we can make a friendship out of this which she wants and I do want it as well.  We had some strong values like making dinner and when she was upset she would cry in my arms.  We were pretty strong at one point and I know she is looking the best guy she can take as what has happened to her in the past.

    After going on about her current date (they ended apparently the other day as he travels a lot) I have asked for space for at least a week.  It caused my mind to be all over the place and actually break down into tears in front of her best mate.

    Even with the space. I bumped into her and her kid today.  I thought I would be civil and ask her how she is and she was civil with me and even though you have mentioned it was wrong she let me hug her kid.

    This situation is a mess.

    Bradley

    June 1, 2017 at 11:13 am #151564
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    I agree I have very strong feeling for this girl and she literately messages me every day.  There is some things I miss with us like the sex.  However she keeps talking about this guy she has been seeing and how she finds the relationship distant but loving (this has made me uncomfortable).  Yesterday she was upset and I felt bad I couldn’t do much as she doesn’t want me to come to hers at the moment after the big argument.  Today I messaged her saying I could not cope with having a friendship when I have strong feelings for her and she called me to try and calm me down.

    I agree what you were saying she was not sure at the beginning and she is trying to avoid loosing the benefits between us as a friend.  I do feel for her that I cannot move on as it is probably annoying her and I value those benefits we shared and she said its gonna take time to rebuild a friendship.  But I cannot keep holding her back like this.  Please tell me your ideas and tell me which one is the most constructive.

    Bradley

    May 29, 2017 at 1:10 pm #151138
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    I think people have failed to see the point of how she has treated me.

    May 29, 2017 at 11:37 am #151124
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    Anita

    Thanks! However the hurt has not stemmed from that one incident.  She use to be such a kind, warm-hearted person.  Then over night she decided to confuse me, manipulate me and refused to listen to my point of view and acted out on my insecurities.  That also hurt and she has never apologized and been very critical of me.  I have my own issues that have been through since childhood and has cut me.

    Bradley

    May 29, 2017 at 10:26 am #151104
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    Thanks Anita

    Well I told her she deserved the abuse she got in the past, said some other nasty stuff in front of her 2 year old like calling (she doesn’t want me near her son now) and as she threatened to call the police on me I tried grabbing her phone out her hands and apparently hurt her.  Although from the pictures there did not look like there is anything there.

    I am not proud of that but we are still speaking but just and I care about her.  But it has affected me and my emotions.  She told me that she cannot trust a guy again.

    Regards,

    Bradley

     

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