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  • in reply to: Unsettled life. #212609
    bunny
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    Dear Anita,

    Sorry for  my short reply.What I mean possessive I was not allowed to dress what I liked  was not allowed to go out with friends ,was not allowed to get a car licence  and was not allowed to take trips by my own.

    The second affair was based on going out during my days off and a few hours after work while he was still at work,and chatting .

    The first affair was someone i worked with so we  use to see each other everyday.

    Yes when i spoke to him about the problem he denies it.When I asked him if he had any affairs he says no.

    Yes I told him about the affairs cause ,I thought we are starting a new  life together.He accepted the situation but when we fight he mention my past ,and tells me to go back to my x boyfriend.We went three times to a therapist but still it did not work.He says I am the problem,and its me who needs therapy not him.He says he is fine and he is a loyal man and has nothing to be fixed.

    Hope I made you understand a bit more my situation.

    Bunny

     

     

    in reply to: Unsettled life. #212495
    bunny
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    Dear Anita,

    I always kept on dreaming that by going back my husband will learn how to treat me better,since he was always possessive .I was never allowed to do anything by my own.

    I have never excepted that my marriage was a full unsuccessful.

    Never until today still dreaming to make it work.

    I feel so unsecured and do not know what is next to do…I live day by day with no hope for a better future.

    Bunny

    in reply to: Unsettled life. #212365
    bunny
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    Dear Anita:

    Yes the first part of the story is as you wrote.

    And yes i am still in contact with the second affair .We have known each other for nine years and at the beginning of our relationship he was aggressive e.g. he kept me closed in his bedroom flat against my wish .He tried to scare me by taking me in the dark where no people pass by and took my mobile not to be able to contact anyone .

    Not the past year he was aggressive in the beginning of the relationship.

    I am afraid that my son will not talk to me since I have left so many times.Yes he lives with his wife but he has his workshop in the house where we live.So he comes every day .

    Bunny

     

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