Flower, you seem to work in a place where I myself also work and I can understand where you are coming from. I have experienced it and like PearceHawk this is how Im dealing with it. Im still at it to this day as well. I enjoy what Im doing & am doing what I do for the elderly as they are the ones that matter in my eyes. Also I live by the motto” You are at work to work, not socialise” Nothing wrong with being a snob as PearceHawk says either. Do your work to the best of your ability, care about the elderly and do more if you are able too. Most importantly think about YOU, take care of YOU! 🙂