I feel your pain,my ex just broke up with me.9 yrs together no ring.i feel dead ! I’m turning 50 soon and I’m a single mom.im trying to get through this.i do love him.i sent him a letter too.he won’t talk to me at all.he came to see me last Sunday and we was fine.made love and Monday he didn’t want to see me.same for rest of the week.i didn’t know why.i had a small surgery on Thursday and he didn’t care.im mad as hell and I want to confront him and why.i don’t know if it’s someone else but he’s never cheated on me ever.clee