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  • December 7, 2016 at 11:15 pm #122232
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    Dear Alien incident47,

    I totally agree with you. No joke but im often seen with my books. Reading and everything related to that takes away the pain in my heart. Writing on the other hand makes me happy because there is life in the story after all. Thank you for your advice! And sure will 🙂

    December 7, 2016 at 10:02 am #122166
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    Just to add, this could also be a sign that she idolizes you. Yes it is very frustrating but it’s only because she wants to be as good as you. My friend told me this when i confronted her and it left me in shock but that was that. I reassured her that she should be however she choses to be as long as she doesn’t invade into another person’s life way too much. Things are greater now and she’s literally one of the few friends who have stuck along since last time.

    December 7, 2016 at 10:00 am #122164
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    Hey there.

    I have been through the exact same thing but just on a slightly different basis but I’m glad my friend and I have sorted the issue long time ago. My only advice would be I suggest you confront her in a polite manner and let her know how you feel about what she is doing. If she retaliated, just let her be. Focus on your life and your goals and continue being who you are. Over time, she will ( trust me ) start realizing what she’s doing and believe it or not, things will be back to normal again. I know my advice seems really simple but thats the same things that happened in my case as well.

    Hope things will get better for you. Keep the smile and don’t worry too much. Take care ! 🙂

    December 7, 2016 at 9:56 am #122162
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    Dear anita,

    Honestly that is by far the most accurate sentence about myself and i cannot agree more on that. The big hurt is causing so much pain but I really hope I get through this. There was once i read this quote which quoted “Some people can only be in our hearts forever, but not in our lives” and I think this applies for a person like me. Yes it is hard to just let go of the past but this is a battle the Lord has put me in and I have to fight my way out.

    Thank you so much for all your support and kind words. This process had been nothing but really helpful for me to see the clearer view of things. Thank you for your time. Keep up the great work! Love xo

    December 7, 2016 at 9:45 am #122161
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    Dear theheumen,

    Thank you so much really for sharing your story. And I understand where you’re coming from. Again, thank you this means a lot to me. I guess its also time i allow better things to flow into my life. I loved and I always will. But that’s that and that remains in the past. I suppose life has other plans for me in the near future.

    I hope you are well and happy with the life you’ve chose for yourself! Do keep in touch and take care

    December 6, 2016 at 7:54 pm #122103
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    Also is it possible to get more advices from different people and perspectives?

    December 6, 2016 at 7:26 pm #122093
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    Dear anita,
    Thank you for your insights.

    So you have been in this state of mind as wrell? Can you explain on what happened?

    Alright thats with guys and relationships, but what if i feel the same for normal people meaning friends, family members, new friends, old friends and everyone in my life.

    I try my very best to not get upset over things therefore i keep myself busy and im mostly on my own.. however i dont seem to understand why minor changes in their behaviour effects me more than it should and the moment that happens all i want to do it cut ties and connection with people and just focus on my own things. This had also made my life a bit lonely.. i dont wish to be this way but i cant really seem to help it as well

    December 6, 2016 at 7:09 pm #122087
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    The fear of rejection i think started since young. The situation ive been through, family issues, childhood and being blamed for things that were not even my fault. All thses events have made me to not be attached to people because i feel that regardless what i do im never good enough or appreciated and people arent always what they seem to be. Everytime i get close to anyone something surely goes wrong and makes me loose hope in people. Ive also come to the state of mind where i feel its best to keep distance from people because again, no one is there till the end anyways.

    December 6, 2016 at 6:27 pm #122082
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    Then how do i get away from ” this ” and why does it bother me so much? I mean i should be over this by now right?

    December 6, 2016 at 1:36 pm #122066
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    Yes thank you it was my first time using this web so i wasnt really sure on how this web works .. Also im a bit confused by your words..can you please explain more detaily? Thank you

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    December 6, 2016 at 12:59 pm #122063
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    Anyone?

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