Hey,

I totally agree with Perry and Anita. And would like to also add, that finding solution in a relationship is very dangerous and from the beginning it is not the best way to start a relationship by having in mind that someone will fix your problems for you.

My experience was similar, I was in relationship which started and I had some problems, thinking that with relationship my problems will go away, but that same problem I had was also one of the causes for ending the relationship. I know now, that going in a relationship before I fix all my problems is not a option for me. I do not want to burden someone else with my problems, since I am also a big burden for myself, so til then I know relationship is not something for me.

So the main point here is and i believe this is true, that before anybody starts a relationship they should fell good about themselves and then start something, otherwise that relationship will not work, even if in the beginning everything looks great.

Good luck