I (25 y.o.) have been very close with this girl (22 y.o.) for about a year, although oficially in relationship we have been since May. I was suprised to see how open she became, taking into account that at the beginning she was very reluctant to be in relationship – she kept on telling me that she was not ready and that she still haven’t figured herself out. But somehow everything was perfect. No words to describe. We live in different cities but not so far away from each other so we were seeing each other every two weeks or so. We were both had over heels in love. She was literally showering me with attention and compliments. She gave me physical and emotional intimacy I’ve never experienced before and quickly became my whole world.

What is more, thanks to her, my long period of depression with suicidal thoughts came to the end. I was alive like NEVER before

Then one day I came to visit her and noticed that she was distant. She was not so eager to cuddle and kiss, we didn’t have sex and when I asked her what was wrong, she told me that she “lost a habit of being so close to me”.
It was about one week ago. Since that time I was trying to call her, but she didn’t pick up the phone and called me back only once. Our communication via Whatsapp was reduced to one or two short messages per day… and when I tried to ask her again about change in her attitude, she just repeated that she “lost a habit of being so close to me” and she feels sad becouse of it. I have no idea what is going on 🙁

Her behavior changed literally overnight. One week she was hot, passionate, communicating with me a lot, saying how much she misses me, showering me with attention and next week she became cold as an ice. What is more, I’m 99% sure there was no other guy involved 🙁
I’m losing hope that there is anything that can be done to prevent breakup. How can anyone change like this in such a short time? We didn’t have a single fight! For all that time it was like in fairy tale and she gave it up like this so easily and suddenly:(

Dangerous depressive thoughts are settling in again. I feel highly insecure and anxious about this situation and about my future. At night I feel such hopelessness that it suffocates me. I have noone to talk to. I don’t trust any of my friends or relatives enough to be totally honest about that overwhelming sadness and despair, I experience right now.

I felt this way for about 6 months before I met her. I’m scared of going through this again. I just… don’t know what to do 🙁