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  • in reply to: Insecure about body hair #160092
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    Hi Victoria,

    My name is Emily. It saddens me that someone treated you as poorly as your ex did. People are ridiculous! In my view, anyone who asks you to change your appearance just to make them happy probably does not deserve you. Everyone has the right to be accepted and cherished for who they are (and that includes their body!). It’s obvious now that you are afraid of being rejected again, that this guy traumatized you. The same thing has happened to me. I am working on connecting with my inherent goodness and value, trying to find that place where my “sexiness” comes from confidence in my being rather than from my appearance. I can tell you that there are many people out there who don’t care at all what your pubic hair is like. I am one of them and probably you are, too!

    It is hard to recover from being shamed by a partner. I get it. I also trust that with time you can reclaim your confidence because there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I hope you find some really wonderful partners who honor you and find you sexy exactly as you are.

    Warmly,

    Emily

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