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  • May 17, 2018 at 12:22 am #207887
    Eve
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    From what you described, I think you have doubt on him. You don’t really think he loves you enough or put equal effort to the relationship. Otherwise you wouldn’t say you can find someone loves you and respects you during argument.

    It means that you don’t trust him. Maybe he did fail you or your insecurity was making up stories.

    If you can think of something he did contributing your mistrust, then you were not doing it absolutely wrong.

    And from what he did after breakup, he doesn’t seem like a good partner material.

    You are better off without him. Sorry that you’re still suffering from the breakup. The pain, it too shall pass.

    May 16, 2018 at 11:56 am #207773
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    Anita and Inky

    Thank you for your kind words.

    I will send her a care package to her.

    My friend’s surgery went well and she was able to get in touch with me a day after the surgery.

    Luckily the tumor was still in a rather early stage and she was got discharged from hospital today.
    She still has to undergo a series of radiation therapy in the next few months.
    I couldn’t be more fortunate to have her as my best friend and I know I have no control over her illness.
    All I can do is giving her mental support and cherishing every moment that I have with her.
    I was and am still afraid of losing her.
    Life is not fair and life is too short to live in fear.
    And life also teaches me to surrender myself to the unknown and really live at the present.
    April 23, 2018 at 2:24 am #203695
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    Holding back anger only hurts you. Forgive yourself for being the one been cheated on and dumped. It’s not your fault.

    You can never force or convince a person not to leave. You only have control on your mind and action.

     

    April 21, 2018 at 7:17 am #203443
    Eve
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    Anita

    Thanks for your kind words. Coincidentally, my ex just wrote me an e-mail telling me how he was. He is not doing great and still has a lot of OCD episodes.

    I am not anticipating a relationship with him right now but that doesn’t mean I stop caring about him. Should I write back to show my support?

    April 20, 2018 at 11:43 am #203381
    Eve
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    Hi, anita.

    I don’t know about future. But right now I don’t want to be in a relationship with him or anyone else yet. I would like to be single for a while at least for few months.

    I asked him so we are not going to see each other again? He said he didn’t say that. And I said that I am worry about you living in a solitary life. He said that I will let you know about the process.

    He also said that he didn’t want to give me false hope because the recovery might take a long time. And he was afraid that his condition would make him incapable of love for the rest of his life. His doctor told him if he only had one big source of stress, ie career, he could manage to succeed. But when it comes to relationship, it’s tricky. Because some people like him do end up alone due to the stress from marriage and family life.

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