These people sound just like a friend that I had. It was what I could do for her. And yes, also taking credit when she wasn’t the one doing them. She cut me off some time ago because she kept asking for favors such as lending money (I’m not talking about $5, she asked for hundreds at a time) & I just didn’t want to be the “go to” friend anymore, so I just kept saying “Sorry I can’t” We used to be really close but the last few months of our friendship was just her asking me for things. She probably thinks I’m selfish because I was no longer at her beckoning call, but she was being selfish, just keeping me around to see what she could get. I am a very generous person & I will help when I can, but not when I feel that I am being used. I think you & I are alike in that we love helping others. It’s in our nature, but then, unfortunately, we get some “friends” like these. Be careful who you choose to keep as a friend. Stay kind. Don’t let a few bad people make you bitter. But also, be careful who you lend a hand to. If you feel like you are being used, trust your own instincts. My heart ached reading this, as I can relate. I wish you the best of luck in any future relationships. 🙂