Thank you for replying, I am going to check those books out. In some ways I haven’t accepted and find it hard to accept its over. Even though no ones said it. We haven’t spoken since and is it worng of me to seek some clarity as to were she is with the whole thing?

I would feel bad in doing this because she seemed to have so many issues on her plate, it may be inconsiderate of me to ask out right if its completely over.

They have a settlement drawn up but cannot agree on the split of the money left from their how sale. She said she would never go back to him because of how he treated her. Kelly thanks for replying, I am sorry to hear about your relationship ending, from what you have said I reckon you are far better off without that guy.

If she had of said that she loved me, I would know there is hope but right now I don’t know. Hurts a bit to think I might of been getting so attached to some one blind to the possibility that I could be just filling a void.