Hi Anita

As he is doing CA he need some study materials. If I ask why did he met he told he needed study materials from her. And also he told I was talking daily with her to discuss about his studies. As he was lying all these time about talking and meeting to the girl I am not able to believe him.

Also after I kept asking him about talking to the girl he told I was not only talking about studies and I was talking generally also as a friend.

But later he reduced talking when he was with me. So that girl started messaging him desperately. By which I felt there is something more than  friendship.

Dear Anita

1. I told about my distrust in him. He was sorry for hiding and again he will not repeat. And sometimes if I tell I don’t trust you, he tells me to breakup.

2. He also want to stay with me but he wants to get settled early by joining that job. Even if I try hard to make him stay he is not willing to stay because of that job.

3. He likes everything about me. But my dominating character he don’t like.

Sometimes his behavior will be weird. I feel he does not care at all. Also I feel I am only making efforts to keep this relationship. If I cry in front of him it does not hurt him at all. but if his mother cry in front of him he gets so much hurt. I feel he is just there with me because of the commitment (to get married) we made in past, if we wouldn’t have made any commitment about marriage he would have broken up with me till now.

Sonalika

Sonalika

I was trusting him so much in the past. But now he hided about talking with his ex and other girls, so I am feeling how to trust him(I lost trust on him).

The time when I was trusting him that time I gave him commitment about marriage. But to trust him back I want to live near him not long distance, till then I can’t marry him.

We will tell our families about our relationship after he starts doing a good job. After that only I can marry him.

Before that I need to trust him. I don’t know whether he loves me or not. Also how to trust him back. He fight even if I check his phone.

I have decided to move to his city after marriage.

He actually lives with his family. His family don’t know about our relationship. We have decided to tell in our families after he get good job.

When he is with family he ignores me a lot. He don’t even respond to my calls. If I ask him why didn’t you pick the call he tells I was busy in some work or sometimes he will be busy with his sisters.

And While to some other girls on phone if I get busy tone, I ask who was that he tells some boys name from his friends circle. Now a days I am not getting trust on him because he hides things like this.

With ex I don’t know when he was talking but after he came to my city I saw his conversation with his ex which was about me. He told her about me.