Hi Jazg,

I understand what you’re saying.

I was asking for specific information, for instance, how did you feel about yourself and life when the health problems were there and when they were gone?

If I read it correctly, it seems like your reply was just an attempt to get compassion. Sorry if that offends you. I really do have compassion.

To me, it seems like you believe that you’ve never had a loving, kind and supportive partner, and that’s where the health problems and some of your choices have come from. And that’s probably why you stayed in that relationship, because you believed that at least you had connection.

Hi Sandy,

Do you want to understand why you keep feeling sad about the past relationship and why you keep thinking about it?

You could ask yourself, “what do I feel like I lost from the relationship, and how does thinking about it give it to me again?”.

My guess is that you feel like you lost connection, and thinking about the past relationship makes you feel connected to him again.

What do you feel?

Giovanni

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