Dear friend

I’m sorry to hear that, I hope you’re feeling nucb better, if you want to share about your day, I’ll be glad to hear about it. You can vent out to me.

I used hinge and there you can reply to their profile with comments, I mostly commented interesting stuff that I got a like in return and conversation started. But most women were giving dead replies and one word replies. Some matches turned to instagram but I’m actively talking to only 2 right now, and maybe I’ll ask a third one on a date soon.

I’m tired of understanding to be true, even getting a match is so exhausting, you have to ramble your brains so much and after that women there just don’t care much.

Hoping to hear soon from you dear Anita

Goingthroughlife

Dear Anita

I hope you’re well. Haha I can imagine that, it seems funny and fulfilling everyone eating so much that they feel this way. I think the eating too much part is what makes it a holiday.

Thank you dear Anita for your kind and encouraging words.

I have my exam in 2 months, so I have started focusing there a lot, still the mornings and nights are tough.

SS brother’s marriage is going on, we planned for me to be there, but sadly all this happened.
I don’t even know if SS misses me or not and it’s sad. I have been talking to a few new women, two i met through dating app and 1 through mutuals. I’m taking it slow and just taking it as building a friendship at the moment. As I told you friend, dating here is superficial and quite tough. In the back of my head there is always a fear of not finding anyone suitable enough for me, i hope that proves to be wrong eventually.

I hope to hear from you soon

Your friend
GoingThroughLife

Dear Anita

I hope you’re well. IRL socializing sounds very fun, I’m glad you enjoyed. Ahh local taproom sounds so chill and warm. I wish we had something like that here. I totally get your point (must be the red wine in the system haha).

I got my scan done today, and it’s a ligament tear. Hopefully it should heal in next 2 weeks so I can finally hit the gym with full power.

I hope you have a good morning friend.

GoingThroughLife

Dear Anita

Thank you, yes I had no choice but to do them and I did make a promise to myself that I’ll become better as mentioned in previous posts, so I had to. Swelling is less due to anti inflammation medicine but I need to get a scan tomorrow for prope guidance and healing, couldn’t get it done today.

Thank you for your concern friend, makes me feel seen and I appreciate it. Yes doctor asked me to apply nothing till I get my scan done, but thank you for guiding me for this cold therapy process, maybe it will help somewhere down the line.

I hope you have a good day ahead, must be early morning there in US. Have a good breakfast.

GoingThroughLife

Dear Anita

I hope you had a good day. I did not, I fell on my trip and injured my shoulder, it pained a lot the whole day and doctor has asked me to get a scan, I haven’t told my parents yet as they will be very angry.

I also cried today remembering SS and how she gave up and left. I’m not in college and I can’t easily attract a girl, and to be true Anita I don’t want to attract any girl like SS again. I got hurt a lot. What would you have done in my shoes dear friend. Life and God are being cruel to me at the moment.

Hoping to hear from you soon

Dear Anita

Glad to hear that, thank you for thinking of me.

Definitely it was an experience of its own, sorry I cannot share picture here due to the limitations of this site.

Goingthroughlife

You got it dear Anita.

Dear Anita

Thank you. Yes, winters are quite tough but interesting. I have trying to write poetry and always trying to find some inspiration and some good vocabulary in Urdu. Winters feel like the season of poetry.

Hoping to listen more from you.

GoingThroughLife