Hi Eliana, the main setback that I mentioned was the death of my beloved cat.  As for the friends thing, I had an incident happen to me in jr. high that turned me into a loner for a long time.  I got some psychological issues straightened out last year and finally stopped pushing people away.  Now that I’m starting to come out of the loner phase I’m at a loss on how to get started again.  I live in a small town right now so there’s nowhere to really go except one bar, and those aren’t places to meet real friends if you ask me.  And I do love animals.  I feed the neighborhood “critters” along with my currently 7 cats.  I have raccoons, opossums, skunks, and I had an armadillo come up one night.  I had a skunk stick around so long and get so tame that when the food bowl was empty, he would scratch on the patio door.  Then he would back up a few feet, I’d fill the food bowl back up, and he’d come back to continue eating.

• This reply was modified 7 years, 3 months ago by colby.

Actually, gardening isn’t really my thing. My habitat consists more of wild animals that I’ve kind of tamed. Thats why I highly doubt I could take them with me. My past is a whole issue in itself, but I’ll get into that later.