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  • in reply to: Ghosted, then he came back #148775
    hjanimal
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    Thank you, Anita, that is very wise advice. Yes, I guess I didn’t realize how much the situation with his friend upset and affected him until his message yesterday. It did make me view the entire thing a little differently and regret making it so much about myself, though I wish he just would have told me he was upset and couldn’t talk 4 days ago. That level of distraction/disconnect seems to indicate that he is completely compartmentalizing me out of his life. Maybe that’s purely situational, but it seems like it could easily become a recurrent thing. I would like to know it’s some kind of priority for him to at least respond to me, and right now it feels more like an inconvenience. I do want to see us as friends, because I do care about him and want to help him.

    in reply to: Ghosted, then he came back #148741
    hjanimal
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    Apparently his friend was arrested for dating an underage girl (who he claims to not know was underage) and taking her over state lines. He faces a long prison sentence if convicted, and my boyfriend feels that the friend’s life is ruined. Apparently that makes him want to sabotage his own life as well, I don’t really get it.

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