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  • January 22, 2016 at 1:51 pm #93371
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    psychiatrist said that and everyone who i have told agrees

    everyone i know says not to have anything to do with him, he has issues and whilst i try to keep being his friend he is always going to do this to me

    i am so depressed

    January 22, 2016 at 3:47 am #93308
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    yes my mum says it, the psychologist, psychiatrist, they all say i live in a fantasy world expecting something from someone who can offer nothing. I am beginning to feel that i need to move on but i dont know how

    January 20, 2016 at 10:28 pm #93210
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    So after yesterdays argument there has been no contact.

    I have to admit I am shattered. I don’t even know why he gets this hate thing with me. Most days he is over the top but when he gets down he is such a smart arse.

    Everyone says he is a toxic parasite but he is my best friend

    I suppose in time it will heal but today feel absolutely rotten

    January 20, 2016 at 2:31 am #93099
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    yeah my mum left when I was 2 and I was bought up with my grandmother, uncle and aunt and they all spoilt my cousin. I was not treated very well as a child

    My friend and I had an argument tonight, he was so cocky and I dont know why and he had a go at me over something that I did not deserve. 2 hours later he sends a text and says all is ok.

    I wish I could let him go, its not healthy for me, but its like I cant hurt him

    January 19, 2016 at 1:55 pm #93039
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    yes it sounds ridiculous i feel like i am not good enough, if i am good enough why does he need someone else

    i was with him yesterday and he said he loves us both equally

    January 18, 2016 at 3:14 am #92876
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    I have no idea what it is

    I have been with my friend and his other friend who is female for half the day.

    I have just left the two of them together as she said she does not want him to go yet

    why is that affecting me so bad 🙁

    January 15, 2016 at 2:30 am #92606
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    Thanks for the advice Inky and Anita

    Anita, I probably have had these feelings before with a close friend about 20 years ago. My friend is very complex and at times down so I go into a counselling role with him. I know its not my job to do that but I am always there for him. He has bipolar and can’t see his way through sometimes and I always seem to make him think differently.

    I feel like I will be lonely without him. Honestly that has not happened but it is a real big fear playing on my behalf.

    I feel like if he is with other people that I am not good enough.

    Have been with him now for 2 days in a row. We get along really well (usually)

    I saw my psychiatrist today, he said that I have to live with these feelings of abandonment. They are not real and I need to see them through. The past predicts the future. I feel that the friendship will end but this has obviously not happened.

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