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  • in reply to: How to Let Go of the Judgement of Others #144121
    simran
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    • Well it’s nothing new so don’t feel that there’s any problem in you..  many of us feel the same thing like scared of being judged or being rejected.

    Because of this we often even think of taking revenge and to be honest it’s not a great thing

    “No need for revenge mate. Just sit back and hang on. Those who hurt you will eventually screw up themselves. And if you are lucky enough, God will let you watch” – they say.
    They maybe right. Actually they are, but they maybe broadcasting this, sitting in the Himalayas. But we are humans And and it makes us angry like why me! But never think “why me” just say “try me” And overcome. And of course even Iam like all those homo sepians who gets back at them who wrongs me but only indulging myself in those so called nice thoughts of revenge, and hardly getting into actions! Oh  come on! Who dares to chop off their tormentors head? I toh only can do it in my thoughts even if I’m dying to take such step!

    Now, creating such stuff in your harns, does any good to you? No right? Neither your nemesis is illfare with it. It’s just waste of your time and of course your energy.
    Abb I’m not asking you to apply that forget and forgive wali policy even iam not that sanyasi kind a person..
    So how to get over without even regretting that you couldn’t take revenge?
    TURN SELFISH – yes just turn selfish and weigh the importance of every second of your life. Why spare so much time just to think about an inconsequential numskull. And while you are thinking about revenge it constantly reminds you of the misery you have gone through.

    So become selfish!

    Now talking about those revenge fantasies! Well there is nothing wrong in wasting your time thinking about revenge ideas, but don’t forget to think about the repercussions too!
    Why become a criminal and ruin your life just for some louse moron?

    Well after becoming selfish understand that living well is the best way to get even. Because nothing derives your tormentors imsane than seeing you happy, smiling and living a good life.
    And i dont think there’s any law that forbids us “showing off” our happiness. Just laugh like a lunatic in front of that jerk. Trust me it kills them!

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