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AmitParticipantHi Kate,
All I can say is that let go.
Here’s a little story of my life. As a kid I remember that I tried catching butterfly’s but most of the times when i caught them I would end up hurting them or not catching them. Then when i got tired and sat down in the field, i noticed that the butterfly’s came and sat on me. That was the last thing i ever expected.
The take from this story is that sometimes when we want something really bad, we end up either stuffing it up or not getting it. Letting go and calming our mind and soul sometimes helps us get what we want.
Meditate and connect with yourself and let go. You will attract all you want. Clear all thoughts.
Hope this was helpful in some way.
Amit
AmitParticipantI can’t say I have been in a situation like yours, but I can only begin to imagine the pain that you are going through.
I believe that “all the answers that I seek lie within me”. Sometimes when I am too close to a problem I don’t see the solution, which generally is right in front of me. That’s why I seek a friends help in pointing out the answer to me. Sometimes its hard for me to accept it, but when i ask my “inner self ” it generally agrees with the solution.
In your case the answer to you situation lies within you as well. All you need to do is identify what you think will make you truly happy and go with that solution.
What I see is that you need to connect with yourself by being in environments in which you are happy. Get your self esteem back by introspection. If your husband doesn’t want to be with you, its a tough decision for you as well to let the past go, but you will have to make it at some point. The sooner you accept that the quicker you will feel better about it. I will use a quote from the movie Kung Fu Panda “The past is history. The future is a mystery. Today is a gift, that’s why its called ‘Present'”
Connect with your inner self through meditation and once the connection is established your inner self will guide you to a solution that will make you happy in the present, thus creating a happy future.
Good Luck
Amit
AmitParticipantI can actually only begin to imagine what you feel. You have loved and lost. Every experience in one’s life leads us to a better place. That’s what I believe in. Be it a bad experience or a good one. They both can change our “Inner Core”. What you are feeling is that your inner core is changing. How I know that is you are “feeling” things.
Once you start feeling things that’s your “inner core being” getting in touch with you. Its giving you a message that you are ready for a change. How you make the change is up to you. I have this strong belief that I have formed over the last few years. I believe that “All answers to my questions lie within me”
I say that because I know I am a part of the universal energy (however tiny). My inner being is connected to the “Creator”, “God”, “Source” or “Cosmic Energy”. I know that this energy is pure and unadulterated. We have always had this energy in us, but it gets suppressed by our physical experiences of our environment around us.
My suggestion will be that I would sit down in a quite place and meditate. Try and get in touch with the “Inner Voice”, that tiny little fella that says what’s right and what’s wrong.
If you haven’t meditated before find a meditation class near where you live. Getting in touch with the”real” inner self will show you ways to not only mend relationships that you choose are dear to you, but also let go of the one’s that have passed.
Take small baby steps by meditating daily till you get in touch with your inner being.
Hope you find inner peace.
Amit
AmitParticipantIn my opinion you are on the right track. Finding the happiness within you will help you get in touch with your inner being. Once you do that your inner being will automatically attract the right partner for you and you will see that they will be similar to you ( connected with themselves and happy with them selves).
Your inner being is a part of the pure energy from the “Source” or “God” or “Cosmic Energy”. We are aware of this when we are children m but as we grow up and mix our experiences with that of the world around us, we listen more to the outside, than the inside.
I am on a journey to reconnect with my inner being and have been on this path for the last few years. I have noticed that the more I have gotten in touch with my inner being I have changed the environment that I am in along with the relationships that I have had with friends. Automatically old “friends and Relationships” have dropped off and new beautiful friendships have emerged with people that appeal to my inner being.
You are on the right path. Find the true connection/relationship with your inner being and you will automatically find people aligning with you whom your inner being likes to associate with.
Good Luck
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