Thank you Inky for your response. Will give lesbian dating site a try if I know for sure me and my ex are not getting back together. For now I think it’s good to be single so I can figure out what I want in a relationship

I’m in my early 30s. I’ve only had two serious relationships. The first one lasted for 9 years and the recent one which lasted for about 5yrs.

What you mentioned about my low libido could be the reason for my attraction to women is a very interesting explanation actually. You could be right. It’s hard to tell since I haven’t been with a woman. I think if I had some experience then i would know the answer to that. But I have a feeling even being with a woman, if her libido is much higher than mine then that’s probably going to put a lot of stress on me. But then I don’t know for sure.. because the reason for my low libido could’ve been not being with the right gender. Thinking back, I don’t think I’ve ever fantasized about men.

all I know is if we’re not getting back together, then I will definitely explore a relationship with a woman. I want to know if being with a woman will increase my libido or maybe I’m just being genetically programmed to have a very low libido.

Thank you for your time!