Healingun, I tried everything i could to talk her round my big fear wasn’t having another child i like to think i am a good father and never let my children down. My main concern was me giving up work and the chance of any decent income i just couldn’t see how i could afford to look after a new born and 2 girls at the other end of the country with no money. I already gave up everything i could to keep her happy friends family any self worth i had i tried everything until i had nothing left to give but the thought that i couldn’t have my 2 girls and i couldn’t have walked away from them never in a million years, I just feel down and a bit sad that my marriage is well and truly over and hope i can pick myself up soon and wake without feeling guilt