Anita:

Thank you for your insight! Although I am timid at first, once I get more experience/comfortable in my role I become more assertive.

To me, being more assertive is easier when I get to know someone. Perhaps it is a comfort thing.

However in my current situation I am too fearful to be assertive because I’ve heard/experienced people being fired after they stood up to the manager of the office. It is a very hostile work environment.

As for personally, I am usually assertive with my family. I do believe I can work on being more assertive in the future.