Dear Thomas,

Yes, wanting something the way it is not at the moment. However, If the sentences you say or tell are not just sentences and you are attached to these sentences and thoughts, this is also an expectation and therefore it is impossible not to attract the suffering.

When you truly believe what you said, that’s already an attachment. Therefore, as i told you before trying to protect your belief and ideas is the reason of your suffering. Because of that anytime i say something, you are taking a position to protect yourself (actually the thoughts you are attached to) right away.

As zen master said, you can’t be something that You are not already.

That’s what i am pointing out as do not lie to yourself. Because, attaching to beliefs as my beliefs or these are true beliefs are already create an separation and therefore lying to yourself as you are something that (accumulation of these beliefs, right or wrong) actually you are not.

Therefore, when you stop lie to yourself as my beliefs are right or wrong, and surrender your beliefs, you (as separate believer) ends, and what You already are shines.

Yet, you=action=effort Empty mind=non action=effortless. Therefore, empty mind is not to achieve something, but dropping all achievements (including any knowledge, belief and experiences).

Dear Anita,

Lying yourself is not being a liar. İt is not you lie to me.

İt indicates to suffering.

Dear Thomas,

Your many posts shows that you are suffering. Because, anytime I post, your only defense mechanism takes place. That mean is ego is so grounded.

If you don’t, please disregard my message.

Peace.

Dear Thomas,

God’s willing is not forcing but it’s welcoming.

Door is always open, if you want to enter in.

Word of “empty mind” is not the empty mind.

Body and mind are one with universe, and out of control as sun and air.

That’s most beautiful way to live.

Dear Peter and Anita,

Amazing puts.

Thank you.

Best Regards,

Hi Calm,

My background is Muslim too.

While you are at work, just be Conscious to any thoughts that are related to i.

Slow by slow, recognition will happen that gossip, lie, taking advantage, trying to prove yourself etc… will be so visible. And that doesn’t mean that not work, you work as you do before yet, not to claim anything.

Most likely, if you these above, ego or survival instinct will hit, what if I lose my job, what if I don’t make enough money or get an promotion etc… , you have to give up all.

Just deeply know that how hard you try, if God doesn’t let you, it is not going to happen.

Dear Anita,

Only way to be one with everything, letting go to anything and everything you have, not physically (such as sell your house, leave your job or leave your family or do not take care of the body), but mentally, completely know that none of it belongs to you. Then you inevatibly dissolve, which is total surrendering.

No knowledge can pass trough there, because knowledge belongs to mind, which is your identity.

Dear Anita,

Ego is so sneaky. Even working on non duality or trying to see trough the illusion is the play of ego.

Because, there is an expectation such as i will drop the ego and see trough the illusion.

Attachment to ego is attachment to expectations. Good or bad. Doesn’t matter.

When one completely drops all the expectations, including enlightenment etc… The one dies.

And what remains is already pure beauty.

Ego = Action, Truth / what You really are = Effortlessness.

That’s why i say, all spiritual feel good or share the love stuff based on ego And fuel the ego.

As I said before, one can work on self improvement or spiritual feel good stuff, yet with one bad news, one life’s back to misery again.

Ego is suffering.

What You really are is already here. Closer than your jugular vein.

Begin with being aware of the thoughts every moment. When everything comes so much to you, say o God, I love you more then myself, this body belongs to you, and I give it back to you.

İf you do this, day by day there will be less you / separation. And when separation completely dissolves there will be no one to contemplate or speak or learn or work on or expect about non duality.

And that’s what non duality is, genuinely not knowing.

Best Regards,