Hi; I am struggling and in a lot of pain following a marriage separation of 27 yrs. we had a major move, many disappointments recently and fought like never before. I believed we had a strong foundation. I am lost, at age 60 I am rattled too my core. I want to do the work he doesn’t seem to. I feel I know longer know this man. I am tormented with this pain an sadness daily. I have a hard time knowing how too start over. I feel shame, deception and loneliness. Any thoughts please?