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  • November 24, 2019 at 9:41 am in reply to: Getting Back Out There #324243
    Jojo56
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    Dear Anita,

    Yes, that makes sense. I think what I need to realize is that my time for grieving this relationship is not over and I need to give it more time and be okay with the grief and the anger until I can accept it for what it is. And then look for a new relationship, not look for a new relationship to replace the one that is over physically, but not mentally for me.

    Thank you so much for your thoughts!

    November 23, 2019 at 1:45 pm in reply to: Getting Back Out There #324147
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    Apparently I have been looking at this from the wrong point of view. When I look at it from that angle he used me for more than a place to stay. Not rent free as he was generous in that way, but there were other perks to be sure. So he wasn’t the person I thought and was just using me till he was ready to move on to the next one. He clearly set up his next place to go before moving on.

    Why is it so hard to think badly of someone who you loved and trusted? And how to trust my own judgment again since I truly believed him to be a good man when clearly he wasn’t if he was using me?

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