For two years i was with a guy who I also lived with and he was great. He was funny, good looking, so sweet, and there was nothing ‘seemingly’ wrong with him at all. I also had a best friend the hole time we were together who was a guy and who we always had a closer relationship than anyone else. Yet we never mentioned anything either, until about two years into the friendship. We both always knew there was something more but never acted on it. Until one day i broke up with the guy i was with since I knew I wasn’t in love with him. He was a GREAT guy, nothing wrong with him, but I just knew he wasn;t for me.It was hard and it wasn’t easy but it was worth it. It wasn’t for a couple of months after the break up that I finally decided to give my bestfriend a chance and we couldn’t be happier. He knew I was his and I knew he was mine and I am so thankful for the time we had to get to know each other as friends because our love is SO much stronger than any love i’ve had before.
This is just my experience but my advice would be to go with your gut. Do what you feel. Don’t spend your days wondering, act on those things you wonder about. You only get this one chance at life and don’t let anything pass you by because you feel like bad things could happen. Most of the time we have to go threw some bad to find the good.
Whatever decision you make is the right decision as long as you are true to yourself.
Good luck to you. 🙂 Hope everything works out.