Hi Felita,

I have always been one who protected myself from becoming attached and allowing myself to be vulnerable. I molded as need with each relationship. It was convenient at first , but as I  matured and started venturing independently more and more into adulthood I realized that I actually could be comfortable hanging out with myself. I could enjoy my own company. I also found my voice but much later. I found the courage to stand up for what I believed to be right and fair. I no longer feared that I would become too attached, because for the first time , I was allowing myself to take control and responsibility for the person I was. What you do in life echoes in eternity. Your name represents the strength of your energy and that is what you are. A name , a memory. Everyday you leave behind an echo. Only you can control what sound is made. You already know it is a crazy way to think and to have a relationship. So stop. You can do it just like that. Mind over matter and strength of will. If you want to get back to being confident and independent, beat yourself out of the funk and show everyone that you are stronger than that. You don’t need anyone ! No one needs anything from anyone else. Because you are just as capable at giving yourself what that is. You are better than that because you are aware. You got this!!