His kids were only 3 and 6 and they actually loved me, he said they were constantly asking about me after I moved out. As for his parents, his ex did tell them. In my mind, truly if he really cared and if it was meant to be then there wouldn’t be any other issues or factors that would get in the way of that.

It hurt to hear him say those words but at least I can have closure now, I’m picking up my things today and have no more to say to him, so there will not be a conversation today.

Thank you you for all your emotional support.

I was hoping to get closure today, but 30 minutes before I was supposed to come over to get my things he said “Hey, I’m not sure tonight will work I’ve gotta go to the expo (forgot the rodeo was going on this week).”

Reading everyone’s responses was more calming for me, I’m dedicated to picking up my things, telling him I miss him and love him, then leaving without discussing our relationship because either way he’s not in a good place mentally to make any decisions about us at this time.

Im gonna give him space and if he wants me back, he’ll come to me.