Dear Mark,

Yes, we been together physically for 2 years before he moved back and we became long distance.

It appeared that he had given up without trying but I kept thinking perhaps he been trying and it reached to a point he could no longer that the pressure hence he just give up?

Because of this thought, I feel guilty if I would just give up the same way he did.

Dear Anita,

We started this relationship without knowing that we could survived the long distance thing. Maybe that’s the reason why he didn’t concern about it before?

Prior to this, he’s in the same country as me and he moved back to his family 2 years ago. The moment he moved back, he’s getting pressure from his parents and from me as well.

Dear Anita,

I’m younger than him by 9 years, he doesn’t want me to waste my youth on him knowing that future is impossible.

but I know he’s hurting equally as me and I don’t wan him to end up in a relationship whether he’s just doing for the sake of parents.

He is insisting me to walk away and get a new life ahead of me while I’m being determined to hold on and fight for us.

i text him, he reads and at times he replies and asked me to look ahead, it’s better for us.