Thank You !  I will do that put him in my past and keep there!

Thank you for responding. My only advice from what I am experiencing is to get some kind grounding and know that you will be ok and time is on our side. In the mean time take care of yourself. Get out of the relationship. You know what is right for you pay attention. This is what I have been doing. Don’t want to be sad no more. People come and go our lives for a reason. Take care.

Thank you for responding. No explanation for ghosting me. He attempted to put it on me and say that he did not hear from me. I was like really, wtf….He was being his old self like nothing happened.   He told me “he was concerned about me and was hoping I was doing fine and not lonely”  What did he mean by that? Was he sincere? really? I went right back to the past for a moment when he texted. I caught myself and told him I was just doing fine. It truly threw me off  but for a half a day.

In my head this whole 9 months I had been weeding out his presence. He kept texting me and I just stopped and did not respond. All these feeling I was feeling had me in a whirlwind so it felt.

The next day I texted him telling him that  we have grown apart and that I moved on as he did. I did not know what he wanted from me and that I am working on myself and that I just don’t need to be involved no more. He texted me back saying that you could at least say hello. Weird ….Mixed signals is what I m getting now. This whole time he could not call on the phone and talk with me. What was up with that? Maybe another red flag right?

I know now what I must do for my peace of mind and for me. So much to work on …I can’t continue this relationship nor can I be his friend.  And after soulful dialogue…. I will tell him this relationship is not serving me and I will walk away in peace. Whew…I can do this….