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  • #45090
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    You are not the same, that is the difference. Though you feel shattered right now and feel you are going through the same thing, the difference is you are stronger than before. Every time you get knocked down, the result is more personal strength. It can feel like a cruel test, but it’s actually a lesson to teach you about how strong you really are and about the depths of trust. Think about why you cried after your first time sleeping with him, how subliminally you already did not trust this person’s character. This will lead you to analyse people differently than you had before and help you find someone you feel more trust for. Look closely at a persons character when you move forward. Do they make you feel scared, nervous or like you have to work to hold on to them? Life is fast paced enough without having to worry about the person you love not loving you and supporting you. You will have clearer vision to see the distinction going forward.

    #45088
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    Take cf yourself, it is a short and simple statement but the only thing you need to do. Every time you allow him in your heart again you take care of him and not yourself.

    My ex husband cheated on me and when I found out I left and he was with her for a year. However I did not know that and continued to try to work things out with him, as he claimed to be desperate to do so. When I found out the real truth, I was spurred by anger and by self love. I called her and told her, called his mom and best friend whohe had also been lying to, and moved across the country to finally end things for good. Dramatic, I know, but I still feel empowered by my self care and love 4 years later!

    Take care!

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