Thank you Anita

The accident happened on the 30th and I really wanted her to come see me because I was really in a lot of pain .  she didn’t come to see me after the accident happened and I didn’t make a big fuss about it but of course my family did . The day after the accident  and the day after thatshe did call and see if I was OK. the communication with her was very one worded and whatever. Now during the time of my recovery from the accident I wasn’t feeling my best.  I was in a lot of pain but also I allowed my mind to go with the negative overdrive . Now while I was recovering I did texted her  and told her how much I missed her and everything else.  but after I realized how much my mind was negative and what not I decided to give her space because I felt as though I was being clingy but also I was negative . she was angry with me  because I didn’t say anything before I decided.  she was angry with me because I didn’t communicate with her that I needed space and I wasn’t wanting to understand where she was coming from . ( hence the blow out)  but the problem was the way that she was stating her opinion came off to me as blaming and criticizing instead of saying hey I didn’t like that you did what you did . she was angry with the fact that I said I thought about what I did and I did it anyway( which I didn’t say that way, I said I consider your feelings and explain why  I did what I did ) but she felt like I didn’t care at all.  so during the argument She put on I didn’t care attitude which she showcase in the text and that’s what made the whole argument blow out of proportion when it didn’t have to be.

So that’s what she was angry about the fact that I didn’t tell her that I needed space because I was dealing with my emotions and how I felt after the accident

And she only called me or text me to see if I was OK

Anita and  Feathering my nest:

She doesn’t drive at all but everyone in my family was like she could have asked for a ride from my family or took an Uber. I still don’t know why she didn’t come till this day.

Inky

Yes as human being we are trained not to say that but people do it anyway

We both agreed to start over and date all over again but lately it is more one worded answers and idk

Most of my friends see how much I love her and they are like ” She need to stop acting like this and realize you are there”

I been really Conflicted with it.

Kalyn

Hello Anita,

I called her after the accident happend and asked her to come up. My little sister texted her to come up and kept her updated about my condition. She knew I was in an accident. She called a day after