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  • in reply to: He cheated on his ex with me and now got back to her #335746
    Laden
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    he’s a jackass. forget about him and realize your self worth. there are many nice guys out there that will treat you like the queen you are. don’t waste your energy thinking about him. when you’re ready, get back out there and find a nice guy.

    in reply to: Depressed boyfriend asked for a break? #335742
    Laden
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    We have been seeing eachother for 3 months in total. But his aunt passed a bit after the one month mark. During the third month he told me he was feeling depressed. I’m not sure if that changes anything. He told me he loved me before he asked for the break.

    in reply to: We broke up because I wanted kids and he doesn't #310047
    Laden
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    Thank you Valora for your kind words. I have been going to the gym more and eating healthy as of lately so I plan to focus more time and energy on that and feel better about myself.

    in reply to: We broke up because I wanted kids and he doesn't #310045
    Laden
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    Hi Anita,

    You always respond to all of my posts and I appreciate your wise advice. Yes he did say to just enjoy the time we had left together when we almost fought close to the date we had agreed on to part ways. I am becoming very discouraged in dating and am losing interest in investing that much emotion, time and energy to different people. I’m not sure if it is just me choosing unsuitable men for myself or if I will just not find someone I will have a long term relationship with. My relationships don’t seem to surpass 6 months, either because I end things, they do or it is mutual. I want a partnership for life but I often doubt whether there is something wrong with me or if it has something to do with growing up with an alcoholic father and parents that fought a lot. I find it embarrassing when most of my friends are in 3 years+ relationships and I’m not. It really makes me believe there is something wrong with me

    in reply to: My boyfriend broke up with me because of his job/ parents? #238111
    Laden
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    Thanks Michelle, your words are comforting. I’m sorry you had to go through that. South-Asian parents can have such wild expectations but the mind-boggling part is when the kids go along with their crazy ideas. That’s why I was surprised my boyfriend would break up with me to satisfy her. But I think we both lucked out. If they can’t stand up for us before marriage, why would we even want to marry such immature boys? Marriage in South-Asian culture is more than marriage to him- it’s to his family too. So trust me, you lucked out from a difficult situation.  I know I did too. His mom sounds like a nightmare.

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