I totally agree! I’m 35 and my boyfriend is 49. A couple years ago the age difference didn’t bother me; however, as him and I get older, the age gap has become more of an issue as I believe we’re ultimately at different stages of our lives. For this relationship to go the distance, I’m slowly realizing that I’m going to be making some major compromises in the future — compromises I really don’t want to make. He’s a great guy, but I really don’t think this relationship will last.