Thank you all for your responses. Believe me, I’ve tried going to family get-togethers in the past. I can’t offer forgiveness if someone hasn’t admitted to it or apologized for it. One time, while visiting at Christmas time one of the brothers had the nerve to ask my girlfriend out. He had been flirting with her for quite some time but I didn’t know he was trying to set things up with her until she told me a couple of days later.

So of course I know they have not learned their lesson and I could.continue doing what some have suggested in attending the get-togethers when things like that continue to happen.