When I read this, a very old saying popped into my head: “Faint heart never won fair lady.” Good relationships need enthusiasm, courtesy, and respect. He has shown none of these. What he has shown, is, as Libby pointed out, a lack of character. His actions are telling: this man started out ambivalent about a potential relationship with you, and over recent months has moved on to treating you disrespectfully. You don’t need a man like that in your life, even as an acquaintance.

Better things are coming for you. Keep looking for the connection.