Thank you for your honest advice… I have been seeking a psychiatrist to speak to bc I know if I allow my anxiety to run my life I’ll get sicker. Thank you for your care though, it means a lot to know there’s people out there somewhere…

God Bless

xo Alexa

Hello! Thank you for your concern!

He’s not actually based out of New York I just used that bc he’s from a different large unsecure city. As for the bosses harassment, his boss was male… so my boyfriend didn’t see it as sexual harassment until his parents sat him down and was like, “Dude this is messed up”… We actually did record 2 phone calls with his boss. When he reported him HR concluded it was a giant “He said, she said” (again this did not take place in NY, he’s from down south actually… I just used NY bc I wanted to keep some info private like locations, dates, times ext). My boyfriend’s job specifically was being an assistant manager to this man and him mentoring my boyfriend. My boyfriend did not want to quit because his parents told him if he couldn’t hold his own in this job he would HAVE to go back to college. And my boyfriend isn’t the best student. He suffers with OCD and Dyslexia which makes it hard for him, even with resources (He had a 504 in college). HR concluded it wasn’t sexual harassment but his boss did get pinged with inappropriate conduct. But that wasn’t a fireable offense in his company, his boss had worked for that company for 25+ years and my boyfriend refused to work with him so he was barely working enough hours a week (he’s in restaurants) to pay for his rent…

his bosses behavior was notable messed up and the company recognized that, but so much wasn’t either A. Recorded or B. In text so it was his word against his bosses. I hope that helps explain the situation better. Again, I do not want to disclose our exact cities for person reasons but he DEFINITELY is not in an area as liberal and progressive as NYC… He was further south unfortunately

Thank you