thanks Paula, he may actually really like her but because she said from the beginning she does not want to be with anyone else right now, that may have put him off and also said all the ‘nasty’ stuff about him not being in love with her and not wanting any relationship with her. How do you think the girl should approach the topic in order to really know what is going on? Maybe she actually does like him a lot too and she would not mind trying a relationship with him, however the things he may have said may have put her off now too for any kind of further commitment!