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  • August 2, 2013 at 6:41 am in reply to: Letting go while still in love #39583
    Lohan
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    Dear Camfleur,

    If the decision was mutual, and if you are absolutely sure there’s no way you are going to give up your job to move closer to him (or vice versa), then completely ending things would be the way to focus on your career.

    I can imagine what’s going on through your head; the hope of reuniting, the possibility of hanging in there until something out of the blue happens that would get you both together, etc.

    Either you both can make a conscious choice to remain connected (for however long it takes) to find a way to reunite or completely drop this. Remember, friends can become lovers but lovers can hardly be friends without hurting.

    Cheers.

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    August 2, 2013 at 6:34 am in reply to: So devastated and inconsolable #39582
    Lohan
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    Hello E,

    If you are wondering why some people move on so fast, it’s usually not because they have “moved on” or found a better one or had this coming, but it’s mostly because they wanted to self-assure their worthiness.

    When break-ups happen, whoever is feeling like the inadequate one is searching for a way to reassure he/she is capable. So they pick-up someone fast, without much thought. Often this ends up in another disastrous relationship and more pain but that’s another story.

    Building back confidence should happen from within. So don’t let this bother you. It’s not your problem anymore.

    Cheers.

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