First off I want to thank everyone who’s  replied you don’t know how much that means to me and that’s cleared my head up a lot.

Yeah I was contemplating about going all the way there because after the conversation we had I don’t feel comfortable going to a city that I’ve never been to and to go see someone who says they’re down for one but seems to be afraid to make the effort.  She does have family in the same city I live in because we all went to the same high school and although she’s busy I feel like that’s safer for both of us. I’m a patient guy who doesn’t ask for the world from anyone, i’ve been told by previous women  i’ve encountered that I’m “once in a blue moon type” and  things end not working out with them because they say “ I’m  ready to commit.” Or “  you deserve someone better“  or “  You’ve  been a big part of my life and I don’t want to lose you” and whether or not we stop talking, they come back into my life wanting me back.

I guess what I’m trying to say is  how do I deal with someone who’s indecisive? What are someways you guys would bring up these kind of concerns?  Would you try to exhaust all options before ending things ?

Once again thank you