Hi Mishy, I’m really grateful to be reading this because I too have had friends, men and women that are like that who have come and gone in my life. When I have times like I am right now where I have a lot of time on my hands and if I don’t keep busy learning or doing something, they seem to just pop up out of no where. I have accepted them as they are ‘finally’ and I thank you for writing this. I’m reminded every time when I see others share that it’s not just me.