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  • #434848
    Franco
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    hi, I’d like to get to know you better since we haven’t even introduced ourselves, I’ve wanted to tell you for a long time 🙂 …… is this a bad message?

    #434842
    Franco
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    Yes I will

    #434833
    Franco
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    “Yesterday, the girl I like watched a story on my IG profile for the first time. I also received a like on a picture of myself, but it was from the business profile where she works. I’m not sure if it was her or her colleague, as they are the only people who work there. :)”

     

     

    #434832
    Franco
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    yesterday the girl i like has watched for the first time a story on my IG profile, and I received a like On a picture of myself but with the profile of the business where she work, I don’t know if was her or the colleague they are the only people who work there 🙂

    #434698
    Franco
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    I forgot to add that even though we had very brief conversations we never formally introduced ourselves but I think it’s a negligible detail, or I introduce myself in the message but I don’t think it’s necessary because the name and surname are already out on social media

    #434694
    Franco
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    I was thinking of writing her this message: hello, can I ask you for some information, I saw from your photos that you were in Berlin, since we were organizing a trip with some friends of mine we were thinking of taking it into consideration as a destination, would you recommend it to me? Or write to her directly that I would like it I don’t know how to know her better, tell me. or I know that she is from a small town near mine, I saw that we have mutual friends on social media, I would like to ask these friends if they know her well in person and maybe let me meet her in person, because honestly I don’t feel comfortable where she works

    #434652
    Franco
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    I saw from the profile photos that this girl has been to Berlin and other places that I would like to visit, I could ask her for information on these destinations since I was thinking of visiting them, if she recommends them to me and maybe start a conversation from there, or go direct and write I’d like to know you if you like

    #434648
    Franco
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    yes last night I Don’t have rested very well because I was thinking of it, I took a nap in the afternoon and now I feel better. we can talk when you want about Emotion Regulation.
    a friend of mine the only person who know that I like this girl,after I told what happened yesterday have told me to not catastrophize the event because It happen frequently when a man is interested in a woman to act a little awkward happen to everybody, sometimes talking with a friend is helpful he suggested like you play the card of message her on istagram, but I don’t know what to write to start the conversation, life is short I want to know her =)

    #434629
    Franco
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    I thank you for your availability, we can talk about it whenever you want. at a certain point I remember pretending to cough out of embarrassment 🙂 even a friend of mine told me not to think about it because it doesn’t mean that girl thinks badly of me and to try contacting her on Instagram

    #434623
    Franco
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    Maybe I’ll think about it later, for now I don’t want to think about it for a few days,

    #434620
    Franco
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    I had a small talk with her about the commercial transaction

    Her colleague was Laughing at me because I acted anxious she looked in my eyes, I dont know what to do, I laugh about it know but in that moment I wished to not have existed

    #434612
    Franco
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    I went to the shop where he works with the excuse of refilling but I stopped after a while and got anxious and his colleague started laughing and I think I made a bad impression

    #434491
    Franco
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    thanks to you all for the advice

    #434449
    Franco
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    1. I’ve had some short chat with her, and I was thinking of going to talk in person where she work when she is alone in the shop  to break the ice, and after a few days send a message on istagram and tell her that I like to know  her better, if She seems interested I will ask her out for a coffe or a drink.
    2. The rejection hurt so much at the time that I don’t pursued any romantic relationship, in retrospect I know that I shouldn’t react in that way I was young and naive 10 years ago,but insecurities stopped me
    3. The fear I had  In the last years  are that girls thinking bad of me because of my lack of experiences
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